I'm going to try to keep a list of things Owen says, may not quite fit into his blog, but sill, stunningly youthful and often funny.
This weekend in the middle of a(n hour long) tantrum after asking for a glass of milk "I want nei nei to throw on the ground!" hmm, at least he was honest
This is intended to (a) keep a log of things that I've made, or that loved ones have made, or that I just think are cool (b) allow me to share some of these projects with friends too far away and (c) keep track of a few of the things I just want to remember.
Monday, April 27, 2009
Sunday, April 5, 2009
got the sewing machine out
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Toasty
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
copycat
Little things
A letter to my son,
Hey baby... okay I know you are a big boy now. I was walking across campus today with a crazy big grin... Diane and I used to call it "left-over laugh" thinking about your love for tiny things... about how at the soup swap, you found one small, dark green leaf in a big backyard and showed it to folks with pride and intense scrutiny. It made me think about your choice of a pumpkin at Halloween... the smallest white one you could find, in a field of big orange beauties, how your choice of a Christmas tree was the one that barely came up to your waist. I think this love of things that just fit into your palm drives you to pick up a horsechestnut most days we walk by a certain tree on the way to school (you can still occasionally find one... months later), and why I always find a small stash of rocks, sticks and bark chips in your pockets... or in mine. Thanks butternut, for making me smile.
Hey baby... okay I know you are a big boy now. I was walking across campus today with a crazy big grin... Diane and I used to call it "left-over laugh" thinking about your love for tiny things... about how at the soup swap, you found one small, dark green leaf in a big backyard and showed it to folks with pride and intense scrutiny. It made me think about your choice of a pumpkin at Halloween... the smallest white one you could find, in a field of big orange beauties, how your choice of a Christmas tree was the one that barely came up to your waist. I think this love of things that just fit into your palm drives you to pick up a horsechestnut most days we walk by a certain tree on the way to school (you can still occasionally find one... months later), and why I always find a small stash of rocks, sticks and bark chips in your pockets... or in mine. Thanks butternut, for making me smile.
Sunday, February 15, 2009
love chicken
Well... is this a food blog or a craft blog or a rambling on blog or what? I guess since it's mine, it can be all three. Anyhow, I wanted to put up a love bird I made for O. for Valentine's Day. I've been out of the creative loop since the holidays, and just gathered the oomph to get this together. I got the inspiration and the pattern from mollychicken (http://mollychicken.blogs.com/). Super easy, well, except for sewing in an oval, I"m only proficient at strait lines. Owen liked it okay... a lot for about an hour but then the felt legs are really no match for a three year old. Actually he really liked the little heart, until I tried to make it into a pin he could wear on his shirt, that angered him. She is a small step away from becoming legless. Otherwise we celebrated Valentines with some yummy special meals.
Thursday, January 15, 2009
memories and traditions and a big big smile
After the flurry of Christmas crafting and all of the winter business, I haven't actually made anything in a few weeks. However, on the note of a homemade life, I wanted to remember my Grandpa Jerry's funeral. I say a homemade life, not because Grandpa Jerry was crafty or handy with tools, but because he was very good at creating a good life. What was remembered the most at the funeral was Grandpa's good, calm nature and his smile... oh his glowing, iconic smile! Ryan also got up and remembered how Grandpa was rarely happier than if you would finish everything on your plate and he could load you up with seconds... thirds. As Ryan said, it wasn't apparent why that would make him so happy when we were kids, but upon reflection as he got older, it was because he was rarely happier than when he was providing for his family. Ry had more to say, but cut it short for composure. After putting that so perfectly, I may have to rattle him for the rest of his thoughts. Anyhow, there was a chinese ceremony at the wake, i likely won't see many more of these. Grandpa had food (tried really hard to get a RAW__ WASHED duck to include with his vegetarian meal, alas misunderstandings etc.. no duck, but I did see what may have been a turkey neck). The siblings each covered Grandpa with a blanket, and gave him a golf club, and much to Brian's shagrin, a rod with a broken eye... Wish we would have grabbed a different rod. Owen definitely saw that part, and was very sweet, and kind of matter-of-fact about the whole ceremony... basically he understood that Great-Grandpa was resting, and went away. O. thinks he's gone fishing, and that's okay, he said goodbye great-grandpa and that he loved him... then worried that Great-Grandpa needed "some rope on his pole". Some folks thought his candor was a good reminder and affirmation of life and legacy. Anyhow Grandpa also got a silver coin in his mouth, and the family each lit an incense stick and kow-towed (three bows). The siblings burned money for him. It was all quite lovely. we wore black arm bands, the grandkids had a little red tied to it. Grandma did really really well. Everyone got a white enveloppe with candy and a dime in it upon entry. The Candy to take the bitter taste of death away. The dime is supposed to be spent before going home that night. What else did I learn... not to drive direcly home, which is why we had dinner out both nights. Upon leaving the funeral, we receive a red-envelope. Adrianne and I were in charge of Grandpa's portrait (of him with a big fish and a smile), the Uncles escorted it outside of Uncle Dudley's sunroof from the church to the freeway (sorry grandpa, just couldn't leave the picture outside on the freeway). In the end, all of the funeral gear, gloves, armbands, a few flowers, were tossed in with Grandpa. You're not supposed to take any of the white envelopes or hang onto the red ones for any amount of time. Finally, the family all received a light which to hop over upon return to home... I think to keep any cemetary mojo outside of the home. It was all so interesting. However the biggest celebration of Grandpa Jerry's life.... which was documented not only in the ceremonies, the kind words, but in the masses of people who attended his funeral. The funeral director was estimating close to 500 people. All friends, loved ones who shook our hands, shed tears, had fond memories... of his generosity, of his smile.
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